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Gain Guidance and Support As You Parent Your Gifted and Distractible Child

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The G&D Course is designed to give you:

  • A deeper understanding of your child’s unique profile
  • Confidence to collaboratively advocate at school and beyond
  • Valuable connections with parents who truly “get it”
  • Clarity and understanding amid conflicting advice
  • Actionable Strategies you can implement immediately
  • A way to bond with your child meaningfully
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Hi Parents! I'm Julie Skolnick, author of Gifted and Distractible and your expert guide on your journey with your 2e child

Hi Parents! I'm Julie Skolnick, author of Gifted and Distractible and your expert guide on your journey with your 2e child

In the Gifted and Distractible course, I guide you through a comprehensive journey to better understand giftedness, learning differences, and effective parenting strategies. Together, we’ll explore topics like parenting styles, advocacy planning, and actionable techniques to support your child. I’ve designed the course to be dynamic and engaging, blending video content, live meetings, Q&A sessions, and interactive breakout discussions to ensure you feel supported every step of the way.

In the Gifted and Distractible course, I guide you through a comprehensive journey to better understand giftedness, learning differences, and effective parenting strategies. Together, we’ll explore topics like parenting styles, advocacy planning, and actionable techniques to support your child. I’ve designed the course to be dynamic and engaging, blending video content, live meetings, Q&A sessions, and interactive breakout discussions to ensure you feel supported every step of the way.

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Hi Parents! I'm Julie Skolnick, author of Gifted and Distractible and your expert guide on your journey with your 2e child

Hi Parents! I'm Julie Skolnick, author of Gifted and Distractible and your expert guide on your journey with your 2e child

In the Gifted and Distractible course, I guide you through a comprehensive journey to better understand giftedness, learning differences, and effective parenting strategies. Together, we’ll explore topics like parenting styles, advocacy planning, and actionable techniques to support your child. I’ve designed the course to be dynamic and engaging, blending video content, live meetings, Q&A sessions, and interactive breakout discussions to ensure you feel supported every step of the way.

In the Gifted and Distractible course, I guide you through a comprehensive journey to better understand giftedness, learning differences, and effective parenting strategies. Together, we’ll explore topics like parenting styles, advocacy planning, and actionable techniques to support your child. I’ve designed the course to be dynamic and engaging, blending video content, live meetings, Q&A sessions, and interactive breakout discussions to ensure you feel supported every step of the way.

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Parents of Gifted and Distractible kids: Are these statements relatable?

  • You feel like you’re in uncharted territory
  • You can’t parent your gifted and distractible child the same way you were parented, or how others are parenting their kids.
  • At times your child does and says incredibly astute things but then can’t seem to accomplish simple tasks.
  • You often receive conflicting advice on what to do for your child – and it’s all about focusing on your child’s deficits.
  • You feel powerless during moments of heightened anxiety, meltdowns, or struggles with perfectionism.
  • It’s exhausting constantly searching for answers in a system that doesn’t understand twice-exceptional kids.
  • You’re lonely and feel isolated because no one seems to fully grasp the challenges you’re facing.

The challenges you’re facing are real—and I can help.

Raising a twice-exceptional child is a unique experience, filled with both remarkable joys and profound challenges. Your feelings of confusion, frustration, and exhaustion aren’t a reflection of parenting failure—they’re results of how hard you’re trying. 

You don’t have to navigate this road alone.

The G&D Course and Community is designed to provide clarity where there’s confusion, actionable strategies where there’s uncertainty, and a sense of common experiences where there’s isolation. 

Using the book, Gifted and Distractible as our guide, together you’ll gain: 

  • A deeper understanding of what’s going on for your child and why
  • Tools and strategies to support your child’s success and self confidence
  • A community of like-minded parents who are going through the same things as you

Overview

What's Included in the Course?

Practical hands-on lessons, in-person (virtual) guidance and support, a hands-on workbook, and an instant community of your parenting peers.

5+ Hours of Comprehensive Webinars

6+ Hours of Live Sessions with Julie

Supportive Community of Parents of 2e Children

Personalized Guidance from your 2e Expert

Actionable Workbook and Tools

Lifetime Access to Course Materials

2e Resource List

25 Handouts

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Course Curriculum

Week 1: Understanding
(January 14th)

Discover what giftedness truly means, debunk myths, and explore common learning differences like ADHD, sensory differences, and more. Gain tools to help others see your child’s unique strengths.

Week 2: Live Meeting
(January 21, 1:00 - 2:30 pm EST)

Join a live session to deepen your understanding, share insights, and connect with other parents. Explore your child’s unique strengths and asynchronies through guided discussions and breakout groups.

Week 3: Strategies Part I
(January 28th)

Dive into proven strategies to support your child, including parenting styles, reframing perceptions, and anticipating triggers. Build stronger connections through practical tools like P-R-A-I-S-E and personal connection techniques.

Week 4: Live Meeting
(February 4, 1:00 - 2:30 pm EST)

Join a live session to dive deeper into the strategies from Week 3. Ask questions, share challenges, and collaborate with other parents in breakout groups. Gain tailored insights and practical tips to apply these tools effectively with your child.

Week 5: Strategies Part II
(February 11)

Master best practices to support your child and avoid power struggles. From adding order and ease to your morning and evening routines to structuring screen time, you’ll learn to set boundaries and increase joy. 

Week 6: Live Meeting
(February 18, 1:00 - 2:30 pm EST)

 Join a live session to apply and personalize the strategies from Week 5. Collaborate with other parents, share experiences, and refine techniques like structuring routines, using humor, and giving choices to support your child effectively.

Week 7: Advocacy
(February 25)

Understand the importance of advocacy and how to shift the focus from deficits to strengths. Learn how to craft your child’s story, set specific goals, and build positive connections through thoughtful communication and appreciation.

Week 8: Live Meeting
(March 4, 1:00 - 2:30 pm EST)

In this live meeting, work together to craft your child’s story by answering five key questions and setting meaningful goals. Collaborate with other parents to refine your advocacy approach and strengthen your confidence in supporting your child.

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The Book

Gifted and Distractible

This award-winning, Penguin Random House-published guide has already helped countless families in their 2e journeys. The Gifted and Distractible course uses the book as its foundation, empowering you to implement its strategies directly with tailored guidance from the author.

Over 18,000 Copies Sold!

Recipient of a 2024 "Best Book" Award

Published By Penguin Random House

Acclaimed by 2e Experts

The Book

Gifted and Distractible

This award-winning, Penguin Random House-published guide has already helped countless families in their 2e journeys. The Gifted and Distractible course uses the book as its foundation, empowering you to implement its strategies directly with tailored guidance from the author.

Over 18,000 Copies Sold!

Recipient of a 2024 "Best Book" Award

Published By Penguin Random House

Acclaimed by 2e Experts

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Your Path to Confidence and Clarity

Before The Course

After The Course

Confusion about what "gifted" means, especially when paired with learning differences

Clear understanding of giftedness and twice-exceptionality, debunking myths and misconceptions

Struggling to manage meltdowns, anxiety, or perfectionism without clear strategies

Handling challenges effectively with tools like emotion regulation techniques and reframing methods

Feeling overwhelmed and reactive when addressing everyday struggles

Using structured, proactive strategies to anticipate triggers and create a balanced, harmonious home environment

Feeling like no one else understands the challenges of raising a twice-exceptional child

Connecting with a supportive community of parents

Feeling unsure how to explain your child's needs to teachers and school administrators

Confidently crafting a compelling narrative to advocate for your child’s strengths and needs

Before The Course To After The Course

Confusion about what "gifted" means, especially when paired with learning differences

Clear understanding of giftedness and twice-exceptionality, debunking myths and misconceptions

Struggling to manage meltdowns, anxiety, or perfectionism without clear strategies

Handling challenges effectively with tools like emotion regulation techniques and reframing methods

Feeling overwhelmed and reactive when addressing everyday struggles

Using structured, proactive strategies to anticipate triggers and create a balanced, harmonious home environment

Feeling like no one else understands the challenges of raising a twice-exceptional child

Connecting with a supportive community of parents

Feeling unsure how to explain your child's needs to teachers and school administrators

Confidently crafting a compelling narrative to advocate for your child’s strengths and needs

Why Choose The Gifted and Distractible Course?

A "Guide On Your Shoulder" Approach

Navigate the complexities of parenting your 2e child with expert support that feels like having a trusted guide right by your side. This course provides a roadmap to clarity, confidence, and empowerment.

Actionable Strategies For Your Child's 2e Journey

Transform theory into practice with proven strategies tailored to your child’s unique needs. From emotional regulation to advocacy, gain techniques you can implement immediately to make a lasting impact.

Community of Like-Minded Parents

Join a supportive network of parents who understand the unique journey of raising a twice-exceptional child. Share experiences, exchange ideas, and grow together in a community built for understanding and connection.

A Proven Framework For Success

Follow a step-by-step framework that has already transformed the lives of thousands of families, giving you clear guidance for making meaningful progress with your child.

Empowerment Through Knowledge

Gain a deep understanding of twice-exceptionality and your child’s unique needs, empowering you to advocate effectively and parent with confidence.

Flexible Learning on Your Schedule

Enjoy lifetime access to course materials, allowing you to learn at your own pace and revisit lessons whenever you need support or inspiration.

“Julie Skolnick’s compassionate and practical guide demystifies the complexities of both giftedness and learning differences, and shows both parents and professionals how to support twice exceptional kids to help them self-actualize.”
Scott Barry Kaufman, PhD
Scott Barry Kaufman, PhDHost of The Psychology Podcast and author of Transcend
“What a gift this book is to the family with a curious, clever, creative, and oh, so challenging 2e child! Julie Skolnick brilliantly guides parents (and anyone else listening) to understand 2e kids deeply, to employ hundreds of calming and compassionate strategies, and to advocate for gifted and distractible individuals, at home, at school, and out in the world.”
Carol Stock Kranowitz
Carol Stock KranowitzAuthor of The Out-of-Sync Child
“A wonderful guide to twice exceptional/2e children and adults. Bright and disabled children are often misunderstood. Their intellectual gifts often mask their weaknesses. Their disabilities can present obstacles to their cognitive promise. Such uneven developmental profiles often lead to undernourishment of strengths and underestimation of impairment. In this comprehensive review, Skolnick shines a light on this complexity. This gem of a book will go a long way toward helping parents and children achieve, as Skolnick suggests, both understanding and calm. As a developmental pediatrician I give this book my strongest recommendation.”
Dan Shapiro, MD
Dan Shapiro, MDDevelopmental-Behavioral Pediatrician and creator of ParentChildJourney.com
“Gifted and Distractible is a wonderful resource that will make a valuable addition to the book collection of anyone working with 2e learners! Weaving stories with research and advice, Julie Skolnick takes a deep dive into the lives of 2e learners, describing their educational, social, and emotional needs. With practical tips and tools, this book will improve the quality of life for families by guiding parents toward both resources and solutions. Gifted and Distractible will be referred to over and over by caring advocates working to meet the challenging needs of the sensitive, asynchronous children in their lives.”
Edward R. Amend, Psy.D
Edward R. Amend, Psy.DCo-author of A Parent’s Guide to Gifted Children and Clinical Psychologist at The Amend Group
“Gifted and Distractible is filled with important information and helpful models to frame approaches for understanding and supporting these special youngsters. Julie Skolnick presents issues using stories that all parents can relate to as they strive to nurture and support their 2e child. Filled with gems throughout, this is a book that parents will find helpful, interesting, and insightful.”
Susan Baum, Ph.D.
Susan Baum, Ph.D.Chancellor, Bridges Graduate School of Cognitive Diversity in Education
“This comprehensive and timely book will be a life-saver for many overwhelmed parents of twice-exceptional children. Ms. Skolnick offers parents enormous insight into the inner experience of children who have advanced cognitive abilities and yet also have learning, attentional, and/or social differences, as well emotional challenges. Providing dozens of excellent strategies and experience-tested tools parents learn to advocate to teachers, administrators, coaches, and scout leaders -- and anyone else who has the potential for influencing their child in positive ways.”
William Stixrud, Ph.D
William Stixrud, Ph.DCo-author of The Self-Driven Child and clinical neuropsychologist and faculty member at Children's National Medical Center and George Washington University Medical School
“Julie Skolnick has long been the go-to expert for helping parents and educators understand twice-exceptional kids, so I’m thrilled that she’s finally sharing her wisdom and insights in Gifted and Distractible so we can ALL work toward the best possible outcomes for these fascinating, complex learners! Comprehensive, nuanced, and actionable, Gifted and Distractible will certainly become the go-to book for any parent of a 2e child.”
Debbie Reber
Debbie ReberFounder & CEO Tilt Parenting, author of Differently Wired
“Gifted and Distractible is literally the 2e playbook to help parents understand their 2e child and help them thrive. Julie Skolnick, a passionate guide and advocate, set out to give families and all those who care about 2e individuals a roadmap filled with strategies to take action and create positive change. Mission accomplished! This comprehensive book is filled with Julie’s wisdom and experience on every page. Approachable, digestible, and actionable, Julie guides parents in bringing out the best in their 2e child and teaches how to help others do the same.”
Dan Peters, Ph.D
Dan Peters, Ph.DLicensed Psychologist, Co-founder and Executive Director, Summit Center; author of Make Your Warrior a Warrior and co-author of Bright Complex Kids
I applaud the “Cycle for Success” process described in Gifted and Distractible, and I love everything about this book! Julie Skolnick is articulate, insightful, and honest. She draws upon her extensive knowledge and experience, and complements this with research that she has conducted across several fields of study. She conveys deep understanding about the 2e population, offers countless practical strategies to encourage children’s positive growth, lays forth steps for effective advocacy, and provides comprehensive worksheets that serve to punctuate the meaningful messages conveyed throughout this book. Gifted and Distractible is a must-read for families with twice-exceptional learners. Moreover, it will inspire and inform anyone seeking to support their child’s optimal development.
Joanne Foster, Ed.D
Joanne Foster, Ed.DAward-winning Author, and Gifted Education Specialist
Julie F. Skolnick M.A., J.D., With Understanding Comes Calm

YOUR 2E EXPERT

Julie Skolnick, M.A., J.D

Julie Skolnick, M.A., J.D., founder of With Understanding Comes Calm LLC, has passionately guided thousands of parents of gifted and distractible children around the world, mentors twice exceptional adults, and advises educators and professionals on how to bring out the best and raise self-confidence in their twice-exceptional students and clients.

She is the author of the best selling book Gifted and Distractible, A practical, research-based guide that demystifies giftedness and learning differences in order to help twice exceptional children thrive.

She serves as secretary to the Maryland superintendent’s State Advisory Council for Gifted and Talented Students, and produces virtual conferences and other engagement opportunities for the twice exceptional community. Julie and her husband are parents of three twice exceptional children who keep them on their toes and uproariously laughing.

If this sounds like you...

  • You’re searching for a community that truly understands the unique joys and challenges of raising a twice-exceptional child.
  • Navigating the world of education and advocacy feels like an uphill battle, with little recognition of your child’s strengths.
  • You’re overwhelmed by advice that feels one-size-fits-all and doesn’t address the complexity of your situation.
  • Your home life feels out of balance, and you’re unsure how to support your child without neglecting your own needs.
  • You wish there was a way to help others see your child’s potential beyond the labels and diagnoses.
  • You’re ready for real, actionable tools that bring progress instead of frustration.

Then… join me in the Gifted and Distractible Course!

In this course, you’ll:

  • Find a community of parents who get it and are walking a similar path.
  • Learn how to advocate effectively and reframe challenges into opportunities for growth.
  • Gain practical strategies to support your child’s emotional and educational needs.
  • Build confidence in navigating tricky situations with educators, family, and professionals.
  • Discover ways to celebrate your child’s unique strengths while fostering harmony at home.
  • Empower yourself with tools to help your child thrive—and enjoy the journey along the way.
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ):

The G&D Course and Community is an eight-week course based on Julie Skolnick’s book, Gifted and Distractible, (Skolnick, J., TarcherPerigee, 2023). The course, like the book, is divided into parts: Understanding, Strategies (Part I and Part II), and Advocacy. Every other week parent participants receive webinars that address particular topics within each part. Every other week parent participants gather for ninety minutes on zoom to discuss the topics, ask questions, and gather with like-minded parents to share their parenting struggles and wins.

Week 1: Part I Understanding – receive webinars

Week 2: 90 minute Live meeting in zoom to discuss, answer questions, and meet parents (Jan 21st, 1-2:30PM EST)

Week 3: Part II Strategies – receive webinars

Week 4: 90 minute Live meeting in zoom to discuss, answer questions, and meet parents (Feb 4th, 1-2:30PM EST)

Week 5: Part II Strategies cont’d. – receive webinars

Week 6: 90 minute Live meeting in zoom to discuss, answer questions, and meet parents (Feb 18th, 1-2:30PM EST)

Week 7: Part III Advocacy – receive webinars

Week 8: 90 minute Live meeting in zoom to discuss, answer questions, and meet parents (March 4th, 1-2:30PM EST)

This course opens for enrollment only a few times each year, and spots are limited. Once you register for the course, you will be able to log into your member’s portal immediately and you will receive the schedule for when course webinars are released and when live meetings are scheduled.

Unfortunately, no. The Course is also a Community and we will be building relationships based on our shared experiences. To keep the course safe and relevant we will only allow parents in who join during the registration period.

Absolutely not! But you do need to purchase the book as it will serve as your guide and give you context to the course. The live meetings discuss the topics, the webinars provide context for the meetings, and the book helps to understand the webinars. But, if you find yourself in a particularly busy week (what 2e parent doesn’t?) don’t worry – the webinars will walk you through and the workbook will keep you on task.

Yes. There are several places you can find the book in paperback, audio, or e-book. You can find them all listed here

Absolutely not! The course context is so relatable to all parents of 2e kids that you’ll be able to engage without watching every webinar. Of course, those who read the book and watch the webinars will likely get the most out of the course.

Yes. All participants must parent at least one gifted and distractible child.

No. Parents of all aged children are welcome, though most discussions will be geared toward parents of children under 21.

The G&D Course and Community is a one-time registration fee of $397.

The G&D Workbook is included in the course! This Workbook allows you to follow along the webinars with various exercises and prompts to make your participation even more meaningful and to help you remember what you learn for years to come. The material in this course remains relevant forever. Since twice exceptionality is genetic, you’ll still want to review your work if you become a grandparent!

For content questions, please reach out to Support@WithUnderstandingComesCalm.com. For logistics and registration questions please reach out to Tech@WithUnderstandingComesCalm.com.

"I'm so thankful for Julie's knowledge, and the kindness and generosity of the community."
"The combination of alternating weeks of webinar/speaker sessions then open discussion was really helpful for processing and internalizing what I learned."
"So glad to have made the decision to join. I get so much out of my time with you. This is your superpower."
"For one hour, I didn't have to constantly explain myself to anyone."
"Thank you so much for the group today! I finally felt like I belonged somewhere!"
"I'm so thankful for Julie’s wealth of knowledge, and the kindness and generosity of the community"

RECAP OF EVERYTHING YOU GET WITH THE GIFTED & DISTRACTIBLE COURSE

  • 5+ Hours of Comprehensive Webinars ($800 value)
  • 6+ Hours of Live Sessions with Julie ($1900 value)
  • Supportive Community of Parents of 2e Children ($300 value)
  • Actionable Workbook and Tools ($200 value)
  • 2e Resource List ($50 value)
  • 25 Handouts ($50 value)

TOTAL VALUE: $3300
YOURS FOR AS LITTLE AS $397

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8 Week Access

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  • 5+ Hours of Webinar lessons
  • Weekly Live Sessions
  • 8 Weeks of Access to Webinars and Live Meetings
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1 Year Access

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$597
  • Full 8 Week Course
  • 5+ Hours of Webinar lessons
  • Weekly Live Sessions
  • 1 Year of Access to Webinars and Live Meetings
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Lifetime Access

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$897
  • Full 8 Week Course
  • 5+ Hours of Webinar lessons
  • Weekly Live Sessions
  • Lifetime of Access to Webinars and Live Meetings
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